Where I come from, a woman understands that she has reached a ‘certain age’ when her turn comes to prepare kollyva for departed relatives… Kollyva (or kollyvo) is a sugary pilaf made with wheat-berries, raisins, almonds, walnuts and pomegranate seeds; an absolutely delicious sweetmeat, fragrant with cinnamon and cloves.
See also the story and recipe of Ashure, the fruity version of the ancient sweet.
Photo by PENNY DE LOS SANTOS
Kollyva is traditionally prepared to mark nine days, forty days, and one year from a beloved person’s death. In the old days, pious women would often make it for All Souls’ Day (the first Saturday of the forty days of Lent and the Saturday before Pentecost) as well as on important saints’ days.
The closest of kin has the duty to prepare the grains and take a plate to the church or the cemetery to be blessed by a priest during a brief ceremony; then spoonfuls of this symbolic sweet are distributed among the parishioners as well as the relations and friends of the deceased, and the passers-by. (more…)